Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Jealous Bitches

Something I have had to learn is to cut people out of my life that arent rooting for me.. I have always been someone who feels like they have to have lots of friends.. (side effect of low self esteem on my part) No matter what detriment those frienships may have to me and my well being.. I didnt care when my "friends" said mean and hurtful things to me or about me.. I would just laugh it off and try my best not to show how hurt i was.

My favorite lately is people who say that they are so happy and positive but in reality they are the complete opposite and say and do things to make others feel bad about themselves.. watch out for those people. Its harder to realize that they are the negative people that will bring you down to make themselves feel better about themselves.

Now i know that i am a good person. I deserve to have people in my life that would join me on my journey to trying to be healthy rather than tell me i cant do it and i wont follow through. I now have people that are truly there for me and are willing to do whatever is in their power to help me get to where i am going.

I am so grateful for those people.. Especially my husband. He is the most supportive person in my life.. I love him.

There will always be someone jealous of your success. There will always be at least one person that tries to put you down just to make themselves feel better.. Those people need to go. You cant live a happy life when you allow "friends" to bring you down. Let them be jealous from afar.. Let them be miserable on their own. You deserve more than that.

1 comment:

  1. This is so true! When my husband and I got pregnant with our oldest, the first thing we did was cut out those"friends" who were not good to have around. It hurt, and I have to admit, I let go of my best friend. But, he was always bad nothing my husband and said he was disappointed I got pregnant by him. So for the success of my relationship and my child, I let him go. That was 9 years ago and the children. By far a great decision!

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